Don’t Be An…

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If you’ve followed my blog for long or follow me on social media, then you know that I love a good inspirational quote. Put the quote on a picture of a beach or mountain, and that is like a little slice of motivational heaven. Today, I saw one of these pictures that summed a lot of what I have been thinking about the actions of people lately. It said “inspirational quote of the day don’t be an ass.” Frankly, I feel like that is the exact inspiration that a lot of people are needing these days.

Why is this needed inspiration? At it’s most simple form, it is because there are sects of society who have become too preoccupied with their own agendas to seem to care about how their agenda impacts others. So I’m going to present to you a series of question, and if you answer yes to any of them, I implore you to take some time to reflect on how it relates to the advice of “don’t be an ass.”

  1. Are there things you do in the name of “morality” that purposefully hurt other people?
  2. Do you almost hit people head on because you aren’t paying attention to which side of the road you’re on?
  3. Do you judge books by their covers so to speak?

I’m sure my list could go on and on, but I just wanted to include the ones that I’ve seen this week where I feel like “don’t be an ass” is appropriate advice. The first question on the list comes from all of the bills around the country aimed at hurting those in the LGBTQ+ and Drag Communities. Whether that is something you understand or not, purposefully hurting those communities through legislation is being an ass. Number two on the list comes from almost getting hit today by a goober who turned on the street we were on today and didn’t seem to notice they were on the wrong side of the road until I stopped to avoid them hitting us. If they had of hit us, then I’m pretty sure this mama would have been a total ass. I will be the first to admit that I’m not 100% perfect at following this advice. The last question comes from a general observation of how judgmental people can be. Spend five minutes scrolling through social media, and that will remind you of just how judgmental people can be especially when there is a keyboard and screen separating from whomever they are judging. In a nutshell, there’s the reasoning behind my list of questions and why I think “don’t be an ass” is such sound advice.

What is the best advice you’ve seen this week?


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2 thoughts on “Don’t Be An…”

  1. I love inspirational quotes too and your post really resonates with me. “Don’t be an ass” is such a simple, yet powerful piece of advice. It’s so important to reflect on our actions and how they impact others. My question for you is, have you found that reminding yourself to “not be an ass” has helped with personal growth and improving relationships with others?

    Mr Waxixe


    1. Well, I just saw it like ten minutes ago, so thus far it works. 😂 Seriously though this is always one of my goals, and if I find myself feeling like I’ve been an ass, I like to reflect and apologize as needed.


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